Thrive Recovery Handout: Overcoming Worry — A Christ-Centered Approach to Rest and Recovery
“Cast all your anxiety on Him because He cares for you.” — 1 Peter 5:7
I. Introduction: What Is Worry?
Definition: Worry is a persistent mental and emotional state of fear and unease about potential future outcomes. It often stems from a desire to control circumstances beyond our reach.
Biblical Insight: Jesus directly addresses worry in Matthew 6:25–34, emphasizing:
“Therefore I tell you, do not worry about your life... Can any one of you by worrying add a single hour to your life?” — Matthew 6:25, 27
II. Core Truth: Worry Is a Spiritual Issue
Worry reflects our beliefs about:
God’s Sovereignty: Is God truly in control?
God’s Goodness: Does God have my best interests at heart?
God’s Timing: Will God act when I need Him to?
“Trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding.” — Proverbs 3:5
III. Worry and Legalism: Insights from Dr. Neil T. Anderson
Dr. Neil T. Anderson highlights that many believers operate under a legalistic mindset, believing:
God’s favor depends on their efforts.
Worry becomes their way of "doing something."
This mindset suggests, “If I’m not worrying about it, then I’m not being responsible.” However, this is a misconception.
“It is for freedom that Christ has set us free.” — Galatians 5:1
IV. Coping Mechanisms: Numbing the Worry
Unhealthy coping mechanisms often serve to numb worry or emotional pain:
Excessive social media use
Overeating or undereating
Substance abuse
Overworking or perfectionism
Isolation or escapism
Biblical Examples:
King Saul coped with anxiety through control and anger (1 Samuel 13–15).
King David brought his fears to God, as seen in the Psalms.
“When I am afraid, I put my trust in you.” — Psalm 56:3
V. The Ineffectiveness of Coping Alone
Attempting to quit a coping mechanism without addressing the root cause—often worry—can lead to:
Relapse: Triggers remain unaddressed.
Shame: Efforts fail without true healing.
Exhaustion: Behavioral changes without spiritual transformation are draining.
“Watch and pray so that you will not fall into temptation. The spirit is willing, but the flesh is weak.” — Matthew 26:41
VI. A Biblical Path to Freedom: From Worry to Worship
Step 1: Recognize the Trigger
Identify moments when anxiety arises.
Step 2: Identify the Lie
Determine the underlying belief fueling the worry:
“I have to fix this.”
“No one else will take care of me.”
“If I don’t do it, it won’t get done right.”
Step 3: Replace the Lie with Truth
“Do not conform to the pattern of this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind.” — Romans 12:2
Examples:
Lie: “I’m alone in this.”
Truth: “Never will I leave you; never will I forsake you.” — Hebrews 13:5
Lie: “I can’t rest until this is resolved.”
Truth: “Be still and know that I am God.” — Psalm 46:10
Step 4: Surrender Through Prayer
“Do not be anxious about anything, but in every situation, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God.” — Philippians 4:6
Prayer is an active step of placing our burdens on God.
VII. Trigger-to-Truth Worksheet
Use this worksheet to navigate moments of anxiety:
Trigger Moment: What event or thought caused anxiety?
Usual Coping Response: How do you typically respond?
Underlying Lie: What false belief are you holding?
God’s Truth: What does Scripture say?
Redeemed Response: What action can you take to align with God’s truth?
VIII. Group Activity: Surrendering Worry
Materials Needed:
Small stones or coins
A large bowl or basket
Instructions:
Each participant holds a stone, symbolizing a personal worry.
Reflect on the coping mechanism associated with this worry.
When ready, drop the stone into the bowl, symbolizing surrender to God.
Conclude with a group prayer of trust and surrender.
“The Lord will fight for you; you need only to be still.” — Exodus 14:14
IX. Discussion Questions
How do you typically respond to worry?
Can you identify a link between your worries and coping mechanisms?
What lies do you believe during anxious moments?
Which Scripture truths resonate with you in times of worry?
What steps can you take to move from worry to worship?
X. Final Encouragement: Jesus Offers Rest
“Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest.” — Matthew 11:28
Rest is not earned; it's a gift from Jesus.
Additional Resources:
Worry vs. Anxiety: What’s the Difference?
Though often used interchangeably, worry and anxiety are distinct experiences—mentally, emotionally, and spiritually. Understanding their differences can help you better address them with biblical wisdom and practical grace.
1. Worry is cognitive; Anxiety is physiological and emotional.
Worry
Happens in your thoughts
Focused on specific issues
Often temporary
Controlled with logic and action
Anxiety
Felt in your body and emotions
Can feel vague or generalized
Often persistent or chronic
May persist even when you know the facts
Example:Worry says, “I might not have enough for rent.”Anxiety feels like, “Something bad is going to happen, and I don’t know why.”
2. Worry is often a response; anxiety is often a condition.
Worry can be a normal response to a stressor.
Anxiety can become a pattern of being, where your brain is always scanning for threats, even when none are present.
“An anxious heart weighs a man down, but a kind word cheers him up.” — Proverbs 12:25
3. Worry is more easily surrendered; anxiety may need healing.
Worry can be addressed with prayer, truth, and surrender.
Anxiety may also require inner healing, trauma work, or professional help, especially if it becomes debilitating.
Biblical Insight:In Philippians 4:6-7, Paul gives a practical roadmap:
“Do not be anxious about anything, but in every situation, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God.”
But Paul doesn't just say “stop.” He shows us how to redirect anxiety into prayer, trust, and peace.
4. Spiritually, worry is often rooted in control; anxiety is rooted in fear.
Worry says: “I need to figure this out.”
Anxiety says: “I don’t feel safe, even if I try.”
Both are addressed by the peace of Christ, but anxiety may run deeper and require more than just cognitive shift—it requires presence, comfort, and sometimes professional care.
“When I am afraid, I put my trust in you.” — Psalm 56:3
Practical Summary
Worry
Surface-level thoughts
Deep, often unconscious fears
Responds to reason
May ignore logic or evidence
Short-term
Anxiety
Long-lasting, sometimes chronic
About specific problems
Often general, hard to define
Treated with prayer and truth
May require counseling, therapy, healing
Closing Encouragement
Whether you wrestle with worry, anxiety, or both—God meets you in both places.
“You will keep in perfect peace those whose minds are steadfast, because they trust in you.” — Isaiah 26:3